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July 2004

 

We’re Golden

 

The 50th anniversary of our graduation from Dartmouth College is now in the books and it was spectacular! It exceeded expectations on all fronts and was graced with perfect weather. This joyous gathering of the Class will be long remembered as the crown jewel in Master-Connecter JOHN GILLESPIE’s scepter as the creator and leader of decades of Class reunions. Keep the joy of the 50th in mind when we come at you once more in a short five years and, more importantly, as the volume gets turned up on Connecting.

The day-before ritual of envelope-stuffing was attended to by the regular stalwarts, BARBARA, GAIL and DICK BARKER, and DONNA and CLARK DAVIS . We were blessed with the best crew of student workers ever assigned to us - six ‘05s, ‘06s and ‘07s from hometowns ranging from Brooklyn to Guadalajara . And at registration, JEAN ADNOPOZ showed a real flair for retail as she sold out the entire inventory of the ‘54 Boutique - a 30 year’s collection of shirts, hats, belts, pins, bags and glasses. BILL WHITE had set up a table with undelivered copies of More Reflections and spent hours accepting accolades for the remarkable job he and WAYNE WElL had done in the preparation, editing and publication of The Book.

Thinking it might be nice to have an intimate Early Bird cocktail party for our stuffers and the few Classmates who might have come a day early, we set up a bar at 5pm. Luckily, we had our entire reunion liquor supply on hand as no less than 165 ‘54s and companions swarmed the tent and inhaled the hors d’oerves in the first ten minutes. An auspicious beginning.

Friday found everyone acknowledging the shortness of the weekend, going to every one of the offered events. As the sun rose,  chubbers followed DAVE and LOUISE RANSOM to the Ravine Lodge on Moosilauke and a multitude of golfers lined up according to BOB BERRY’s schedule.  Bus tours, museums and HERB HILLMAN-led tennis  matches  consumed  the midday   along with luncheons at Tuck, Thayer and the Med School .  The registration desk was manned all day with the intake of cash and the outgo of gambler-style hats through the auspices of GARY ROSENTHAL, the newly designed Whirley mugs courtesy of BOB SOKOLSKI and HAL CONARRO and the distinctive ladies’ pins arranged and managed by AUDREY LEWIS.

     Then the more specific gatherings began. (Note: since I was involved in the registration process, I am grateful, as usual, to DICK BARKER for his notes on each of the events.) The Class meeting in nostalgic 105 Dartmouth Hall drew an overflow crowd, with some 40 people standing in the rear.  Following tradition, president DICK LEWIS asked Dick Barker to explain the origin of the Class’s gavel. Winthrop Dale Barker, Dick’s father and the last surviving member of the Class of 1915, asserted that the gavel was made from the wood of the Old Pine and since there is now no-one to dispute the claim, that’s what it’ll be until the last two ‘54s call each other to order. HARRY ROBINSON intoned “We Are Solvent!”, then reported that he would present a check for $2004 to the graduating class as a starting point for their treasury as they step into alumni-hood.

     JERRY GOLDSTEIN was called to the fore to report on the Nominating Committee’s recommendations for the new slate of officers. No  nominations were offered from the floor, so the slate was accepted by acclamation. Leading us for the next five years will be JAY DAVIS. Riding shotgun as VP is DON BERLIN.  BRYCE BASTIAN takes on the duties of Secretary. HARRY ROBINSON will continue as Treasurer for one year (as he finishes his term as President of the Class Treasurers’ Association), then will step aside as ALEC GRAY dons the green eyeshade. The Head Agent for the Class is HUGH NOLIN. The daunting job of stepping into JOHN GILLESPIE’s brogans as Mini-Reunion Chair went to JOHN FENN. And TOM TYLER has agreed to serve as Gift Planning Chair. Returning veterans are PETE KENYON on Class Projects, BOB ADNOPOZ on Class Awards and yours truly at the newsletter desk. The new Executive Committee (see masthead) features many new faces, including webmaster PERRY DAVIS. Lacking a Chief Justice or a willing lawyer, Dick Lewis administered the oath of office, commenting that it was probably better to have a CPA do it.

     Grateful applause was sounded for those stepping down from years of serving the Class. Jay Davis graciously handed the gavel back to Dick and declared him the Class Leader until the last exhaust plume had faded from view on Sunday. The meeting ended with a hearty “Men of Dartmouth.” 

   The cocktail hour commenced in a Camelot-like tent at the far end of Memorial Field. The spectacular turnout - some 264 Classmates and a total of 502 people - made it a little frustrating trying to find, then recognize old friends. The true worth of the reunion was realized as those attending met and talked with interesting people they had never met before.  The lobsterfest in Leverone field house had all up to their elbows in butter, clams, claws, chowder and strawberry shortcake. After toweling off, many visited President Jim Wright’s garden, then took in the Glee Club concert. Not unexpectedly, LUKE CASE rose and exhorted those assembled to sing the “real” words to Men of Dartmouth.

     Dr. “Ned” Hallowell kicked off Saturday to a full house, bringing to life Connecting as the underlying dynamic of everything good in life. A natural showman, the good doctor drove home his points by referencing More Reflections and familiar aspects of our lives. He rang a bell with most of his audience, bringing to mind the connecting events of our last five years.  A sign of his impact was the number of ‘54s quoting him through the rest of the reunion.

   Rollins Chapel was the scene of the memorial service. Several well turned-out Classmates served as ushers and escorted the seven attending widows to their seats. RIP COFFIN, JERRY GOLDSTEIN, DAVE RANSOM and GEORGE FITZGERALD presented a moving service which included readings, hymns and a meditation by Rip  which can be viewed on the 1954 website. The names of the 139 Classmates who have died  were listed in the program and the names of those who had passed away since the 45th reunion were read.  After the reading of names, a trumpeter played “Taps”. To signal the celebration of the lives of our friends, the service ended with the joyful hymn “When the Saints Come Marching In” accompanied by the “Sultans and Friends”, a group of ‘54 musicians gathered for the occasion by  BILL MURANE - SKIP WEYMOUTH, JOHN PRATT, PETE BULLIS, JACK SHENEFIELD and MIKE PAYSON. JAY DAVIS  supervised all of the arrangements from programs to flowers to the music.

    With perfect weather holding, the luncheon honoring the 50th year Class was held on the magnificent lawn before Baker Library.  The Class was joined by a number of luminaries from the College. DICK LEWIS chaired the affair and did a fine job of introducing President Emeritus DAVE McLAUGHLIN who presented the stimulating 50th Class Address. Drawing upon our experiences and memories of Dartmouth days and inserting significant quotes which were read by JOHN CUNNINGHAM, Dave invoked a call for civility in dealing with others, even those with whom we disagree. Dave’s full speech is available on the Class website.  (www.alum.dartmouth.org/classes/54/)

      RICK HARTMAN, DICK PAGE and BOB BERRY then mounted the platform to heft a huge check for presentation of the Class Gift to President Jim Wright. The number on the check was $7,774,554 with a last minute addition cleverly added in bright red. Rick declared a record-breaking 92% participation.  As is well known, a high percentage of our Class gifts over the years has come from a small number of ‘54s. Sitting at one of the tables of honor was BOB CLEMENTS, the man who laid the foundation for ‘54s significance with his $2.5 million commitment for a Professorship of Democracy and Politics (see Bob’s comments in More Reflections). Since this ritual occurred on June 12 and the books didn’t close until June 30, Rick has asked that the figures be regarded as only a stopping point on the way to even greater success.  Jim Wright rose and was effusive in his greetings to us, grateful for the chart-topping check  and a bit sentimental about our departed friend TOM SAYLES and his tremendous efforts and contributions toward major upgrades in the golf course.

   In addition to enjoyment of the Hanover environs, the afternoon included a ceremony in which DAN McCARTHY was inducted into Phi Beta Kappa and a panel presentation on “Drinking at Dartmouth - Then and Now.” DAVE GLEASON and JOHN GILLESPIE were panel members along with Dr. C. Everett Koop and several selected experts. Once again, standing room only.

     The Class banquet was held in Leverone Field house, an edifice large enough to hangar two Hindenbergs, ergo impossible acoustics. In spite of the valiant efforts of our sound tech, Bruce Plummer, son of our own DICK PLUMMER, the 500 assembled had little or no idea of what was going on at the podium. BOB ADNOPOZ rose to present the last of the Class of 1954 Awards and mentioned that the practice of recognizing Classmates would continue, but in a different format. The award was presented to JAY DAVIS. While the audience could not hear his acceptance remarks, they likely assumed that they were astute and humble. An incredible Dartmouth octet, The Aires, performed at a level seldom seen at our functions. For one number, they coaxed Joan Holtzman, JACK SHENEFIELD’s delightful “sweetheart”, into their midst and crooned what appeared to be a made-up song entitled “Joan.” Following thanks to the ‘54s who “made all this possible,” Jay Davis introduced me to do some 15 minutes of drollery. A disaster. The 35 people who could hear me laughed in the right places which infuriated the other 465 who couldn’t hear a word.  I have agreed to append my remarks to this newsletter even though they were delivered from ad lib notes.

    A sign of the times was the hardy group of only ten who had the stamina to finish the evening at the Class tent. Skip Weymouth, Pete Bullis, John Pratt and TOM HALL provided fine background for the bellowing of the Old Songs.

   The fiftieth year class has the honor of leading the graduating class to their seats. We gathered in Rollins Chapel on Sunday morning and were introduced to our marshal, the irrepressible John Rassias, the master of full immersion impact language instruction. Professor Rassias urged us to acknowledge the cheers of the crowd by waving our hats and singing “Volare!” We waved , but passed on the singing.   Pomp, circumstance, prayer and song were observed.  Masters’ degrees were conferred upon candidates from multiple disciplines, plus MDs and Phds.  In contrast to our days, only a few of the Tuck, Thayer and Med School graduates were Dartmouth undergraduates.

    LO-YI CHAN and DICK PAGE were among the nine recipients of honorary degrees. Lo-Yi’s is a Doctor of Arts and Dick’s is a Doctor of Laws. Lengthy citations were read relative to both men and the Class responded loudly and long.

  

Jay and Martha Davis

The Crew 

 

Today’s Dartmouth !

Jeff Immelt ‘78, Chairman and CEO of General Electric Company, delivered the commencement address, nicely laced with humor and sage advice.

   Jim Wright acknowledged the Class of 1954, its accomplishments and its contributions to Dartmouth .  The valedictory to The College was delivered with strength, vigor and inspiration by Savina Rizova, a native of Bulgaria . Obviously a favorite  on campus, she received a standing ovation.

   Mercifully, teams of speed-talkers were brought in to read the names of the 1058 members of the Class of 2004. In the style of the military academies, the new grads tossed their caps high in the air.  President Wright imparted wise words to the new alums and we sang the old words to “Men of Dartmouth.”

     Hamburgers at Hestons  was perfect, with Classmates still finding friends for the first time during the weekend. The Bloody Marys were excellent due to the contribution of gallons of “Old Maude’s Juice” by DONNA and CLARK DAVIS (recipe will be in the next newsletter.)  BETTY and JOHN HESTON have been our hosts for this event over many years and the thanks of a grateful Class are extended once again.

     The caravan to the Basin Harbor Club for the extension of the reunion was joined by a total of 44 Classmates and friends.  The perfect weather continued and the eclectic group took advantage of all the athletic facilities and nearby museums. SABE ABELL  provided an informative talk on the lore and  history of Lake Champlain during the Sunday evening cruise.  Sabe and Karen have  lived on and sailed the lake for years.  The combo hired to play at the Monday night dinner sat idle as ‘54s, one after the other, stepped up to the mike to comment on the joys of the gathering. PETE KENYON  and HERB HILLMAN worked assiduously to provide just the right setting for the reunion “afterglow” and succeeded in spades!

   So there’s the report on the scheduled events. Now let’s talk about some of the special aspects.

   The Class tent drew many interested ‘54s and friends to pore over several displayed memorabilia. JOHN POPE provided a number of framed copies of The Dartmouth  from our time on campus.  News of our doings, campus events  and world events transported us back to the days of yesteryear.  JOHN GILLESPIE supplied a memorable book of photos of our 25th reunion, complete with President MANDY waving from the back of a white convertible.  BOB LEVINE displayed the material he had meticulously gathered for a “time capsule” originally to be presented to the  class of 2004.   With all the graduation doings, a presentation became impractical, so Bob has developed a better idea - a “capsule” to be opened and displayed at 2004’s 50th reunion in 2054! The plan  would be to lay out the variety of items in their class tent for perusal and amazement. The trick is to arrange to have someone remember the whole situation (the few of us still alive will be 122 years old).  New additions to the box of materials include five early Jackolanterns contributed by TED NOVASCONE, an Indian necktie from Paul Stuart’s with the label “Dartmouth Indian”, a 1954 freshman handbook, our commencement program and the Alumni

Magazine from June of 1954. Lastly, Bob has asked that ‘54s provide short (50 words or less) notes, expressing their vision of the state of the College, the U.S. and the world in 2054 - to be read to those graduating in 2054. Use the Greencard to pass your comments to me for forwarding to Bob. Reversing the situation, imagine what the class of 1854 might have passed on to us!

Classifieds

  Lost - A Dartmouth ‘54 reunion hat with several slashes cut into the brim to accommodate an extra-large head.   Probably lost in Class tent while playing guitar. Contact Tom Hall - tmh2nd@aol.com.  

  Found - Silver pin from prior reunion - Lone   Pine and Eleazer gesturing toward a Native American smoking a pipe.    Contact editor. 

  Reunion Photos - Send prints (not email) to editor or John Gillespie. A book of prime 50th photos will be prepared and others will be displayed in future newsletters.   

  Joan - Jack Shenefield would very much like to have a photo of the Aires serenading his Joan. Send print to the editor.

 

Sports Results

  Golf - 35 golfers enjoyed the sunny weather on the improved course. FAY BERRY bested the women’s division with CAROL WEYMOUTH taking second.    On the men’s side, it was DON BRIEF taking the honors followed by SKIP WEYMOUTH, JIM TOFIAS and BOB      BERRY .

  Tennis - Two dozen players participated over two days of matches. The Friday trophy winners were BOB PRICE,  ELLEN GORSEY and DEBBY and HUGH NOLIN.

     Saturday’s men’s  championships brought to the  stand JIM DAVIDSON, JAY CHANDLER, HOWDY RUSSELL, and two-letter man JIM TOFIAS.

A Fantasy

     It’s morning in May 2004 in Warren , PA and HAL CONNARO and his partner “SOCK” SOKOLSKI are having a creative meeting at the headquarters of Whirley Industries. An assistant enters and says: “It’s ready!” Hal and Sock move through a doorway onto a platform high above the main plant. Below them, a massive cauldron bubbles, filled with a molten substance which a visiting ancient has declared to be the “true” Dartmouth Green.  Two buttons are pushed simultaneously and the sounds of “Men of Dartmouth” resound in the plant as hundreds of stylish, car-friendly coffee mugs are formed and quickly robot-stenciled with “Dartmouth ‘54 50th Reunion - June 11, 12, 13 2004.” The workmen give a resounding cheer as they box the mugs for shipment to  Hanover, NH.       

    This whimsical illusion was conjured to underline the superb contribution these two Classmates have made to the Connecting  dynamic by putting a constant reminder before us of the Class of ‘54 and its enjoyable gatherings.  It’s a safe bet that a good number of us take our morning coffee with us when running errands - and there it is, right in front of us - Dartmouth ‘54!  Be sure to read Hal and Sock’s combined sketch in More Reflections.

                                       Audrey & Dick Lewis, Bob Adnopoz  

 

                     Hap Winslow with his 1931 Ford

A Correction

 For far too many years, the annals of the Class have omitted a significant fact - the name of our first newsletter editor.  For some odd reason, it has appeared that we went without a newsletter for the six years following graduation.  Well, not so! The editor was JON MOORE, who reported on our doings regularly in a publication called “Hazqui”, an Iroquois word for “hearken.” Perhaps when Dartmouth was being purged of  all things Indian, Jon was discarded along with Hazqui and the Indian symbol. At any rate, let the records be corrected to show the name of our original wordsmith!

News

     Supreme Court Justice NORM VEASEY has retired from from the Delaware bench and, not missing a beat, has joined the firm of Weil, Gotshal & Manges as a senior partner. With offices in New York and Wilmington , Norm will act as a strategic adviser to a number of the firm’s practices, including mergers and acquisitions, bankruptcy, litigation and corporate governance.

     Following surgery for a hip replacement, BAYARD JOHNSON has been laid low with a debilitating problem with his breathing.  His well-known fighting spirit and the loving support of JANIE are moving him slowly toward recovery, but his low capacity for oxygen intake has limited what he is able to do. Three times a week a “big, bruising physical therapist” arrives to put Bayard through a physical regimen designed to improve the quality of life. Drop him a note: 928 Academy Place , Pittsburgh , PA 15243 ; jane341@aol.com

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In Memoriam  

PRESCOTT MERRILL CLARK  

    “Buzz” Clark died on April 26, 2004 in Boston after a prolonged illness.  He joined us from Newton High School in Waban , MA where he had been active on the student council, yearbook, the glee club and as a member of the National Honor Society.  His father was a ‘26, likely in the company of many other ‘54 dads. Buzz roomed with BILL GARDNER and DON SIMONDS during freshman year in New Hampshire Hall.  He opted for the 3-2 program at Tuck and was an active member of Phi Kappa Psi. He is recalled as a “cheerful, genial fellow” with a wry sense of humor. Following graduation, he served in the US Army as an auditor, keeping suppliers on the straight and narrow in Milwaukee and in Germany .  Post-Army, he dove into banking, eventually rising to Vice President and Controller of the Bank of New England. He left “before the troubles”, according to MARIAN, and then ran the Clearing House of Boston. The amount of funds flowing through his operation topped $1-billion daily.  According to DICK BARKER, the Clarks were one of the first ‘54 families who became city-dwellers and did not own a car. Buzz and Marian were avid collectors of English pewter and art (“nudes for her, bunnies for me.”) Buzz enjoyed singing with a group of Boston businessmen, the Apollo Club.  We are diminished by his loss.

   

THOMAS DYKE SAYLES, JR.  

     Tommy left us on May 15, 2004 after a two-year battle with brain cancer.  Born in Newton Center , MA , he came to Hanover via Governor   Dummer   Academy   where,   in

addition to the newspaper, yearbook and honors, he starred as an athlete in soccer and basketball, discovering golf only in his senior year. He was a Distinguished Eagle Scout. In 208 Topliff, he bunked in with Dummer classmate PETE YATES and JOHN MAY. 

    On campus, Tom joined the AFROTC program, was a brother of Phi Gamma Delta and was elected to Dragon. With only a nibble at freshman soccer, he plunged into golf as a lifelong love and played on the college varsity team. He went through the first year of Tuck as his major.  After graduation, he spent one year at the Hanover Bank before serving three years as a navigator-bombadier in the U.S. Air Force.  Equipped with an MBA from NYU, he rejoined the bank, which had become Manufacturers Hanover, moving into positions of importance in loans and branch managership. Then, a marvelous thing happened - he was offered the opportunity to run a small bank in Summit , NJ - only ten minutes from his home. From that beginning, Tom managed the process by which the Summit Trust grew nicely into the Summit Bancorporation and achieved significant prominence. As bankers are wont to do, Tom was actively involved in over 15 community organizations for which he was constantly honored. Tom and PAT went through the military experience together and settled in Chatham , NJ , raising three fine children, who produced five grandchildren. Tom was a tremendously active alumnus, serving the Class as vice president, Alumni Council rep and the Class Awards Committee. As mentioned before, he chaired the effort to upgrade the golf course at Dartmouth . His

friendship and engaging smile are sorely missed.

      A book will be placed in Baker Library in the memory of both Buzz and Tom.

         

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Barker’s Banquet Remarks

“Musings of a Newsletter Editor”

    Let’s set the scene. Dinner in the field house preceded by a long cocktail hour and enlivened with an abundant pouring of wine during the meal. The audience, some 500 strong, has been out in the sun all day and, in many cases, is still looking for old friends. It’s the end of the evening and virtually no-one can hear me. My notes are scribbled on 3x5 cards and are designed to support an ad lib presentation. Got it? OK - here it is.

   As I stand before this sea of (mostly) friendly faces, I see something rather intriguing - little flashes of light, like fireflies. There’s one now - and another. Know what they are? Email addresses changing ! The bane of every living newsletter editor!

  When I was offered this gig, I was ecstatic. FINALLY! A chance to vent! What it’s like to work with you people - the frustrations, the irritations, the lack of responses to requests, etc. And it would not just for me! It would be for John Gillespie, for Don Berlin, for the Basin Harbor twins, Pete Kenyon and Herb Hillman and for what’s left of Bill White and Wayne Weil!

    Then, when I arrived here tonight, Jay Davis tells me that I only have 15 minutes and that that there will be no profanity or ranting - took all the steam and fun out of it! So we’re back to musings, except I’m now expanding the title to include “....... and Lamentations of a Reunion Treasurer.” I’ll give you a few observations, a anecdote or two, maybe a few confessions and a little fantasy.

     First, Salutations. Most of the notes I receive from Classmates are email, postcards and, recently, deposit envelopes. No-one ever starts with “Dear Pete” or “Hi Pete!” or “How’s it going - how’s Gail?” Nothing, Nada, Niente!  What I get is “I fell off my bike,” ”My kid graduated,” ”Had  both my  knees 

replaced,” ”I don’t  eat salmon!.” Once a year, Harry Robinson sends me a large, thick envelope , or even drives it down to me from Madison , CT. In the envelope are at least 100 friendly notes written on Class dues notices: “Hi Harry!,” ”How’re you doing?,” “How’s Carol?,” “You sonofagun!” So ........ I decided that the trick was to become more like Harry. Now think about what that might entail ....... I finally realized that being more like Harry would require that I develop a pure, consistent approach to life that elevated me to a higher philosophical plane, and ......... Well - never mind, I’ll just get used to no “Hi Petes!”

     (beat) Let’s talk about nametags. Every reunion, we make the same mistake - on the deposit envelopes, we ask, simply, for “Nickname.” What we should ask for is “First name for nametag.” Here’s why.  “Nickname” to most people means a pet name, what you were called in the fraternity house, locker room or even in the bedroom. So what I got was names like “Roman” Destino, “Cat” Franklin , “Boo” or “Bonza” Haertl, “Spider” Peters and “Wendell” Titus. Then there were the “repeaters”: Bergy Bergesen, Cookie Cooke, Dabbo Dabney, Jabba Jabba Jabara, Mandy Mandelbaum and Fitz, Doc, Grass, Jeff, Kirk, Sib, Swanny, Wil and Wheels. So I went to given names. “Lefty”, however, still works.

     Some statistics - everyone asks. We matriculated 721 in 1950. We graduated around 685. Our currently “active” men number from the high 400s to the mid-500s. At this reunion, we have 264 and a total of 502, including three grandchildren. There are 34 Classmates back for their first reunion since graduation. There are 31 doctors and an unmentionable number of lawyers. The most popular woman’s name is CAROL - 15, if you count the Carolyns and Carries. The grace note is that we have 4 Mimis! (Where is Maurice Chevalier when you need him?  Finally, there are 3 Skips and 2 Beavers......

      Back to the newsletter. Over the years, many of you have contacted me and involved me in long conversations which have alluded to fairly steamy or controversial material. Then, at the end of the tale, you tell me “This is not  for publication!” Then why in the hell did you tell me in the first place? Rest assured that, since I have signed on for another five years - if you don’t send me enough news, I will be delving into my strongbox of Not For Publication material and it’s going to hit the street!

(beat) A slight confession. A few have complained about the the cost of this reunion - “$620! What is it for!” As a pro at this kind of stuff, I had a pre-prepared vague answer, or played the wiseguy with “Being Reunion Treasurer means I don’t have to tell you.” But I now feel compelled to tell you that yes, John and I pad the budget ever so slightly so that there will be a bit of a surplus. Between reunions, John and I assiduously test various products and services for possible inclusion at the next reunion. For instance, we are still testing two very nice green cashmere sports jackets; the radial tires with little 54s on them are holding up well; and Sandy and Gail have just about signed off on the casual mink jackets. We feel it is vitally important to know whether these products will stand up over time. However, with a CPA as President, we have had to low key the process over the past five years. We are sure that Jay, as a former ad executive will understand and we’re back in business!

    (beat) Every reunion, Dick Trowbridge steps up and arrogantly declares that “The Chi Phi house is the best-represented house at this reunion!” Not this time ..... At twelve brothers, Chi Phi is in a herd of 12s with Tri Kap, Phi Sig and Psi U - basically in the field, eating hay - like Smarty Jones. In first place, with an incredible 16, is Pi Lam. Because they went after it. I took a call from Jerry Goldstein one day and he hooked me into a conference with Mike Spicer. Jerry said: “Mike wants to ask you about reunion.” In the background, I could hear voices saying things like “Go on, Mikey - ask him!” and “Remember what we told you!” Mike got on and in a shaky voice declared that he wanted to attend reunion and what did he have to do. Intimidation at its worst. When Jerry Goldstein sets a goal, get out of the way!

   (beat) Now the light fantasy. Many of you don’t remember me from your years on campus. Oh, I’ve seen you whispering, pointing, shaking your heads. A great many of the Class communications to me are addressed to Dick Barker. And then there’s always the “Hi, Bob” as in The Price is Right’s “Janie Pearl ...... come on DOWN!” Well - there’s a good reason for this. You see, I never went to Dartmouth .

      Back in the late 50s, I was running numbers for the Gambino family in Brooklyn , hoping to become a “made man.” My name was Ghiardelli Caparoso - “Jilly.” I wanted a better nickname, like “Three Fingers” until I found out the physical requirements.

Anyway, one day I had the misfortune of being present when a Mr. Scungeel got on the wrong end of a “family argument.” Next thing you know, I’m sitting in a chair, being offered options by the FBI. I chose squealing and the Federal Witness Protection Program.

     “A little plastic surgery, some speech modification and wham!, they move me to Tulsa , Oklahoma , assign me a Mid-western wife and a little kid and give me the name William Griffith Barker, Jr.  My  handler got a  little  creative   and added “ Dartmouth ” to my fake credentials. Next thing you know, some Dartmouth guys drag me to some meetings, have me and my “family” to dinner and like that. My cover was working as a junior officer for a small oil company. Oh yeah, the Dartmouth guys make me the president of the Dartmouth Club of Eastern Oklahoma. Not bad, not bad. Then some spumante-head decides to merge  my company with a bigger one

in Philadelphia - a little too close to Brooklyn . Again,  I get found by Dartmouth guys and find myself sitting next to a guy name Malcolm at a meeting. Guy woulda made a great enforcer. OK - it gets worse. Two years later, my pezzanovante handler arranges for me to get a job in New York with CBS. I think he was going for an Oscar in creative mobster handling . Beat, beat, beat - by this time I had gotten pretty good at  being the WASPy William Barker, plus they had assigned me a new wife - a Manhattan broad. Then in 1974, my secretary buzzes me and says: “There’s a John Gillespie on the phone.” The rest is history.

      “So ..... I have signed on for another 5 years and, like a war correspondent, I will grab my binoculars, throw on my campaign hat, get my pipe and notepad and follow you around, reporting your wins, your losses, foibles and new prescriptions. And, my friends, I will do it proudly.

 
Jean Adnopoz, Sandy Gillespie, Gail Barker & Natalie Fenn

 

 

 

THE CLASS OF 1954 AWARD  

JOSEPH LYMAN DAVIS , JR.

          Jay, you burst onto the Class of 1954 leadership scene in July of 1999 and we haven’t been the same since. The Class vice presidency was transformed  into a platform from which you launched us into a five-year frenzy of gathering, connecting and communicating.  Your example was followed by other Ô54s, resulting in a 70th birthday party, a Midwest maxi-reunion, theater gatherings and a melange of sporting activities - fishing, skiing and golf. You rang the bell for all of us and we listened.

          You effectively overcame the blot on your escutcheon of rooming with Choate buddies John Gillespie and Sky Grey, subtly leading both of them into career activities dedicated to communicating. The Psi Upsilon house recognized your management skills and appointed you to an officer’s role.                 

          Like many, you managed to make peacetime military service both interesting and instructive as a Counter-Intelligence agent in Tokyo , with travel through India , Thailand and Hong Kong . Separation from the Army was followed by an MBA degree from New York University , leading you into a decades-long career in advertising and marketing.  Those years took you through a virtual alphabet of Madison Avenue firms - DDB, Y&R, NHS, KSW&G and DMB&D.

          Martha Glenn of Detroit found you both amusing and attractive, so agreed to spend her life with you. Joshua and Christopher are proud to call her Mom. From the early days of a New York apartment, the Davis household moved to a new house in Rowayton , CT , then empty-nested to Wilder VT.

          When most men use the word “avocation”, it generally relates to a secondary activity which provides an outlet for enjoying sports, hobbies or off-beat interests. In your case, “avocation” virtually means a calling. A calling to ease the trials and tribulations of everyday people who have been beset with life-altering events. In the late 80’s, the era of “re-engineering”, “down-sizing” and other euphemisms for “You’re fired!”, you, together with a parish priest in Darien, CT, established a program which brought together similarly-affected individuals for  discussion of their common problems and methods for finding  employment. The success of the initial program led to an expansion to other parishes, then the organization of a sizable network in the Connecticut area. Your prominence in this activity was featured on the front page of The New York Times.  Resurgence of the economy eliminated the need for the network, leaving hundreds of grateful participants with memories of the helping hand.

          A grateful Class is proud and happy to welcome you as its leader and to present you with the Class of 1954 Award.            

June 2004                                    Richard Lewis
                                                   President                

 

 
 John Gilespie