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OCTOBER 2005
PGBarker54@aol.com                        (203) 661-7611

FAMILIARITY BREEDS . . . 

      While Mark Twain’s famous quote related to “contempt .... and children”, our headline might well refer to fine memories and new friends  which arise from joining in the Class’s  multi-varied mini-reunions. These pages have reported on these activities and they have ranged from the athletic/outdoor gatherings involving fish, moguls and golf balls to exotic cruises to football weekends to holiday luncheons.  Then there have been trips to Williamsburg and Chicago , complete with ‘54-oriented aspects. Most lately, TONY KANE’s imagination has produced a fine monthly luncheon group in New York ’s Grand Central Station. We do very well at attracting record-breaking numbers to our five-year reunions  where “new” friendships are, indeed, formed.  With all of these positives, however, there are still large numbers  of you out there who have yet to enjoy the magic of The Class of 1954 at play in retirement.

      We have a Class President who lives and breathes Connecting, that life-extending dynamic explained to us at the 50th by Dr. Ned Hallowell and whose voice reached us all by a CD. So ... as in the famous Uncle Sam poster, WE WANT YOU! First, the obvious - the existing regular events - fishing club, golf outings, skiing trips, Homecoming, holiday luncheons, etc. Secondly, give more thought to the special events, e.g. the extraordinary Dordogne/Provence tour next June organized by DON BERLIN and JOHN FENN (see insert). Lastly, step up to the bar and become a producer of a mini-event ala the Northwest gathering being planned by ED SCOTT and DON BELCHER (we have found that things work better if one of the planner/organizers is a physician.) Now that I have captured your attention, let’s get specific on the status and next steps regarding  the Seattle/Vancouver endeavor.

   Past newsletters have alluded to a ‘54 “mini” in the Northwest and the efforts being put forth by Ed and Don. Last May, my reporting created the misimpression that the kickoff date was in September of 2005 and generated some early interest.  The current plans on paper are as follows:

     -arrive in Seattle on the first or second Sunday after Labor Day 2006

     -two nights in Seattle , including a full day of seeing what  makes the city unique; a mixture of group meals/cocktails    and “on your own” for flexibility

     -bus trip to Vancouver with appropriate amenities

     -three nights in Vancouver , permitting Ed, the “man of two  countries” to charm and dazzle us  with his accumulated knowledge of the city and its surroundings

     -meals and receptions with locations in mind and appropriate free time for       individual exploring

     -possible extension to Victoria - tours, whale-watching, etc.

     -probable hotel cost - $110 per night

      Now here’s the important part - Class interest sufficient to warrant moving ahead.  If the idea appeals to you, you have the energy and resources to make the trip and are more than 50% sure that you would join your Classmates in Seattle , let us know as soon as you can. The indication will not commit you in any way, but is key to the planning. Notify  Ed Scott, edscott@dccnet.com; (604) 740-9907; 6317 Homestead Ave., Sechelt, BC, Canada VON 3A7, or Dr. Don Belcher , donblchr@cs.com; (206) 367-4989; 200 James St., Apt 303 , Edmonds , WA 98020 . In the immortal words of Peanuts’ Linus: “Never set your tummy for a peanut butter and jelly sandwich unless you’re sure there’s some peanut butter.” You are the peanut butter.

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The Front Page of the New York Times

       JERRY GOLDSTEIN, confident that he knew the name of the only ‘54 to have the NYT front page distinction, had posed the question.  At this writing, we have three such distinctive Classmates:

       -DON BERLIN.  The article, complete with photograph, appeared in 1976 and Don was named as the attorney representing the nursing home where Karen Quinlan resided (the famous “remove the feeding tube” case). Don also served on the committee which debated the ethics involved in the decision.

      -JAY DAVIS, according to DICK PAGE was cited for his “ministry” established in Connecticut to counsel people unemployed during the surge of “downsizings” of the period.

      -JOE MESICS.  In 1968, Joe piloted the STOL (short takeoff and landing) aircraft that landed at LaGuardia as the first test of the concept. STOLs needed only 25% of the length of  the shortest regular strip. The accompanying photo showed a pilot’s profile with a cheekbone and beefy shoulder which could only belong to Joe.  The STOL idea never came to fruition, but Joe did. Coincidentally, the article was written by future Dartmouth Trustee David Shipler.

      The request also generated the “only ‘54 ever on the cover of Life Magazine” - JACK TUCK (courtesy DICK BARKER.) Now ..... how about the infamous Page 6 of the New York Post?

Travelers

      There is apparently a propensity to travel once one enters his eighth decade.  I just had to cancel my 55th high school reunion because so many ‘50s were engaged in seeing and experiencing new and favorite places. The ‘54s are no exception:

      -MEAD and April bride DIANE Kelly , following a celebratory reception, honeymooned in Australia and Papua , New Guinea on the Sepik River . “What could be more romantic than primitive Stone Age people along the Sepik selling their penis gourds?” Next July, Mead celebrates an extraordinary 50 years of the Crystal Palace as owner, operator, pianist and vocalist! He plans some coverage in the national press in that few institutions in his category have ever reached the significant half-century mark. Congratulations!

      -LUKE and ANN CASE  - Russia

      -DICK and JANE PAGE - Vietnam , Cambodia and Thailand followed by Scandinavia , the Baltic and St. Petersburg . An October trip to visit a daughter, then Santa Fe . Next year - three weeks in India .

      -DICK DAVIDOFF reported that Dr. ED HORTON just finished a tour of teaching in Cyprus - if that qualifies as “traveling”.

      -RON and TERRY DUNTON, the “Peripatetics”, on motorcycles in Spain and Portugal .  At least it gives the goats a rest.

      -GEORGE and  GINNY KINGSLEY celebrated 50 years of wedded bliss with a cruise on the Danube and Rhine Rivers .  “Lots of history and a lecture in the room where the Nuremberg trials were held.”

      -Coincidentally, the ever-strange DR. DICK DEANER submitted the following couplet:

      The wurst is best in Budapest .

         upon the Danube Blue,

      But don’t believe that schmaltzy waltz,

         the Danube ’s brown as stew.

      Dick continued: “And if you go, don’t neglect a side-trip to Transylvania , Romania - trust me.” Editor’s note - also read the bestseller “The Historian.”

      -TONY KANE and SONJA traversed Croatia , Austria and Germany , spending the first four days in Hvar , Croatia with DAVE  and ROSIE MANDELBAUM.  The Mandys then hied themselves to Positano and enjoyed the city’s  amenities with PEGGY and JERRY BARTON.

      AL “Lefty” TERRILL had a rotator cuff repaired in late August, then, after some “signal” symptoms, visited his physician and discovered that he had suffered a minor heart attack. Apparently, the Terrill constitution is hardy, for he and SAL  joined TOM MALCOLM and CHARLIE and BIRDIE REED on the Dartmouth cruise of the Columbia River - “In the Wake of Lewis and Clark.”

      In an article in Entertainment Magazine subtitled “Why movies based on television shows feel like empty calories - and why audiences keep eating them up anyway”, BO B RAFELSON was given an honorable mention for “Head”, “he, the co-creator of The Monkees, took those four plastic moptops and deconstructed them in this zany yet droll ‘60s comedy of mass-market  psychedelia.” Bob is not a contributor to the newsletter, but I do hear from his delightful assistant when I get something wrong about His Bob-ness.

      An annual exercise is the scanning of the fall Dartmouth Football book for mentioned ‘54s. The 2005 edition is a clay-coated monster of 154 pages! On the opening page is a wonderful quote from President Eisenhower: “This is what a college should look like.” Mentioned are:

      -SEAVER PETERS - former Director of Athletics

      -WALT ANDERSON - HB - 1953’s “Manners Maketh the Man.

      -DAVE McLAUGHLIN and DAVE THIELSCHER - Receiving leaders ‘51-’53

      -JIM MILLER - Passing leader

      -DICK JENNISON - Rushing leader

      An interesting inclusion is Dean “Pudge” Neidlinger’s 51-yard field goal against Harvard in 1922.

      Our advancing age has effectively removed us from being listed in the “Prominent Living Alumni” section. Only “Buck” Henry and Donald Hall of Hallmark represent the early ‘50s.

      Last June, the Milton Sims Kramer Groups Award was presented to the Dartmouth Figure Skating Team, coached by Loren McGean ‘92 and her dad, Mike McGean ‘49.  The team was formed eight years ago by a single skater, Amy Stetson ‘00 and has turned in two consecutive National Championships. Of the seven graduating seniors, two earned Fulbright scholarships and two are headed to top medical schools. Being in the “club” category, the team receives minimal support from the College and is dependent on the kindness of friends. Take a look at their website - www.dartmouth.edu/~skating.  The award was established in 1954 to honor the memory of MILT by recognizing excellence on campus in its many forms.

      Received from an anonymous source: “I have just opened the June issue of AAA Southern New England’s ‘Horizons’. There, in full color, is a picture of GEORGE GRAY BO YS (in a grey suit, of course), handing over the chairmanship of the organization to the new chairman, Joseph Whinery. Excellent photograph. When one peruses the copy, one notes that Mr. Whinery just happens to be a graduate of  Dartmouth College , Class of 1967. I subsequently received a call from Eliot Spitzer, asking for relevant information. I’m sure there’s nothing illegal, just a couple of  rich boys passing along the benefits that come from excellence at beer pong.” The anonymous writer’s wife, JILL KENYON, earned her Masters degree from UMass  last May with a 4.0 average.

      On the occasion of our 50th reunion, JAY DAVIS established the 1954 Sanborn House Fund with contributions from ‘54 English majors. The fund provides awards to students and faculty determined by the faculty of the English Department. In June, Jay attended the ceremony during which the first two student recipients were named for $1000 awards for research “not directly related to a class or seminar.” One will continue her research into Language Poetry  in San Francisco . The other, a “nature poet” will take up a two-week residency at the Frost Place . Jay has reported the event in more detail to the contributors to the fund.

Relatives

      On occasion, notable observations about members of our families are submitted and a few are excerpted herewith:

      -SUSAN NOVA was a recipient of the YWCA’s 2005 Spirit of Greenwich (CT) Award. The recognition is for “vision, devotion and accomplishments which enriched the quality of life for the Greenwich community.”

      -at the dinner at the Class Officer’s weekend, it was discovered by your editor that the charming and vivacious KAY TYLER has had both her mitral and aortic heart valves replaced, giving her senior status in the Class of 1954 Heart Valve Society, whose membership now numbers six  with Mandy’s successful late October surgery. Both new members will be asked to learn the handshake and the  song. 

      -In a hilarious NY Times article entitled “A Clash of Beach-Nesting Species: Plover and Human.” David E. RATTRAY, editor of the East Hampton Star, was quoted as saying “Yes, there is a certain tension -between the human population and the plovers of East Hampton , but for the most part, it is a tongue-in-cheek tension.” The plovers referred to are wee little birds (piping plovers) which migrate from Mexico to the Hamptons in May.  They nest near the high tide line and, this year, the population was great enough to cause the annual fireworks display to be canceled. A former ad man, Jerry Della Femina, began a public outcry and even ran a recipe for fried piping plover with garlic sauce in his local newspaper. Dave Rattray’s paper planned on running a recipe for “roasted ad man.”

      -a while back, JERRY GOLDSTEIN sent me copy of a Daily Dartmouth article from the February 19, 1951 edition headlined “’Schooldays’ Gets Mixed Reaction from ‘54 Dads”. It was a report on the second annual Freshman Fathers’ Weekend and quoted, positively and negatively were: John PAPANTONES, M.T. WERNER, Ward GYPSUM, Arnold RATTRAY, J. Rufus DOIG, George LANE ‘29, David MARTIN ‘29, George ROBINSON, and S.E. GOLDSTEIN. A great archive item.

      As all ‘54s who graced the halls of the Amos Tuck School already know, Tuck was rated the #1 graduate school of business by the Wall Street Journal, based on a survey of  over 3000 corporate recruiters. Tuck graduates were praised for their character, teamwork and strong skills in finance and consulting.  In our day, the 3-2 program was a boon to ‘54s as we were greeted with our military obligations upon graduation and were then able to embark on business careers in our mid-twenties.  Today’s entering classes average 26 years of age with prior business experience, requiring a much greater degree of commitment and significant financial resources. Good for Tuck!

Golf

      SHELLY WOOLF is building a full head of steam on the planned annual ‘54 golf outing at the Tampa Palms Golf and Country Club February 26 through March 2nd. At mid-September, he had a group of 49 husbands and spouses signed up (including nine non-golfers). BILL GARLAND visited the club and has declared it prime in all aspects. Some challenging courses have been reserved and the right people are working on food and entertainment.  This event draws the largest number of participants among the sporting activities in the Class and is managed by knowledgeable, dedicated Classmates who pride themselves on delivering the goods. To join the group, call Shelly at  (508) 362-3522 or email him at swoolf1060@comcast.net.

Changes

   Bob Berry - 32 Whalen Ct. , W. Orange , NJ 07052 , , not 42

   Dick Deaner - PO Box 21508 , Bakersfield , CA 93390 ; (661) 663-9637; bevdeaner@cox.net

   George Fitzgerald - grfitz@gmail.com

   Dick Krimm - RichardKrimm@comcast.net

   Mead Metcalf - fmm@cpalace.net;

      (970) 925-3325

   Art Rauch - arauch@rcn.com

   Bob Collimore - 1434 Blume Drive , Elgin , IL         60123-8719 ; (847) 695-6445; rcollimore@iwic.net

   Walt Anderson - 113 Hilltop Place , New    London , NH 03257 ; (603) 526-7988

   ELLIE and WALT ANDERSON moved to New Hampshire after 40 years in Madison , NJ . They are now happily near family and have gotten to watch grandson Cody  perform on the gridiron.  The proximity to Hanover offered the opportunity to hear Prof. Edsworth lecture on “Manifest Destiny” and a chance to watch the football team’s victory over Colgate - a twofer!

   From BO B COLLIMORE; “I agree with DICK SHELLEY’s advice in the August newsletter - ‘widowerhood’ is not the end of the world. My miracle happened in the form of KATHLEEN Lemay, whom I married in March 2005. I also acquired 3 dogs, another cat, a rabbit, a donkey, a stepson, 3 new grandchildren and a mother-in-law. Life is good!”

   JOHN HESTON joined in a fishing mini-mini at the Megantic Club with the LEWISes, the DICK PAGEs, the MURANEs and BO B ADNOPOZ, “Gourmet meals (brook trout for breakfast), fine wines and good fishing.”

   Rev. DAVE RANSOM filled an entire Greencard with tiny writing, excoriating the “corporate control” of life and, citing the myriad scandals, scams and impeachments, urges a return to our “experiment with democracy.” He applauds the SEC’s new requirements that require boards of directors be primarily, if not entirely, composed of independent directors who truly look out for the interests of all shareholders. He derides our “200 year course to imperialism” and closes with: “Yep, I’m still very unpopular.”

    Retired Delaware Chief Justice NORM VEASEY was honored by the American Bar Association at its annual meeting in Chicago in August. He was presented with the Michael Franck Professional Responsibility Award, a citation for “individuals whose contributions in the area of lawyers’ professional responsibility set an example of insight into the demands of legal practice, dedication to the highest level of ethical conduct and a vision of constant improvement of lawyer regulation in the public interest.” In addition to his Senior Partner status at Weil Gotshal & Manges, Norm continuance of his public presence has him chairing several committees dealing with corporate directors, business law and trial law. In February 2002, the ABA House of Delegates approved the Report of the Ethics 2000 Commission which Norm had chaired and on which DAVE McLAUGHLIN had served.

   BO B BERRY’s bout with Rocky Mountain fever finally ended with the much-heard “cure was worse than the affliction.”

   ALEC GRAY has taken full control of the Class’s books as Treasurer.  He succeeds the reign of HARRY ROBINSON, whose term had been briefly extended because of his chairing of the Treasurers’ Association of the Alumni Council. It was not indicated whether Alec would be inder the careful watch of the Class’s unofficial auditor, DICK LEWIS. Maybe we should designate another of the Class’s many CPAs.

   DON KELLER called to report on a telephone conversation with PHIL KAISER, a resident of Mobile , AL. Lost his dock, but no devastating damage from Katrina.

   The June issue of Boston Magazine included an article entitled “The Collector”, featuring a quarter-page photograph of SINCLAIR HITCHINGS. A singularly distinguished photo, about which Sinclair is quoted as saying: “This is one of the best portraits that could possibly  be made of me.” The occasion was a sendoff story celebrating his 43-year  tenure as Keeper of Prints at the Boston Public Library. Recognized as the preeminent curator/collector of prints in the area, Sinclair delights in the subject: “adds insight and resonance to lives; see my surroundings and my fellow people through their (artists’) eyes; sharing an artist’s insight.” At his June retirement, he could be proud not only of the quality and depth of the Library’s collection, but also for taking the endowment of his department from a meager $30,000 to  over $10 million. The collection now includes 100,000 prints, 650,000 photographs and 135,000 postcards.  No immediate smelling of the roses, as Sinclair ventures out to raise funds for a small museum dedicated to contemporary art created in the Boston area.

      RON DOUGHERTY has been named the interim director of the Pro Football Hall of Fame in Canton , Ohio , filling in for the ailing director. Ron’s involvement extends back to 1961 when he helped raise the initial funds for the facility.  Terrific way to spend time for the community.

    JOEL LASKY and your editor sought to introduce a post-dinner routine at Homecoming entitled “The 2000-Year-Old ‘54” but were roundly shouted down by overly sensitive class leaders and advisors. An opening interview:

   Q. You say you’re a member of the Class of ‘54. Is this true?
  
A. True as the nose on your face. I was a proud and productive member of the Class of ‘54
   Q. Difficult for me to believe, sir, that you ... a man who claims to be 2000 years old ...was in the same class that I was ... the Class of 1954.
  
A. What 1954? I was class of 54! Almost two millennia ago!

   Q. But that’s impossible. Dartmouth was founded in 1769.
   
A. That’s the new Dartmouth . Mine was the original.

....................... To be continued .......................

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IN MEMORIAM

EUGENE MORTON ARONOW, MD

   Gene Aronow passed away on June 13 in Corvallis , OR . He joined the Class from Passaic High School in Passaic , NJ where he had achieved honors, was a journalist and captained the tennis team.  Freshman year, he shared rooms with ART HARRIS and IRWIN HERRMAN (dec.). He was a brother of Pi Lambda Phi. He left the Class at the end of our junior year and finished at Northwestern University where he earned his medical degree in 1957. Over the next several years, he married Northwestern classmate Leonora (LEE) Kaufman, welcomed daughters Beth and Lisa, trained in Internal Medicine and Gastroenterology at Mt. Sinai Hospital in New York and managed a tour with the Army Medical Corps in Europe .  After the military, they settled briefly in California , then returned to the East and joined a group practice on Long Island , NY .  Gene did not submit an entry for our 50th book, but it can be assumed that he and Lee moved to Oregon after retirement from his practice.

   We are diminished by his passing. A book will be placed in Baker Library in his memory. 

 

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Dartmouth at the Steinberg Nuptials
from bottom left: Jani Eagle Rauch ‘88, Art Rauch, Bob Clements, Jed Isaacs ‘55
Stan Rosenberg, Dick Steinberg, Jerry Goldstein, Jane Steinberg ‘86
center: David Steinberg ‘88 and Amy

[Click on the photo for an enlargement]